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love that feels right?

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You're here because...

  • You are READY for your happily ever after!

  • You have been dating and want to find your other half, your person!

  • You're tired of relationship struggles and heartbreak.

  • You are longing for a deep, meaningful connection that seems to elude you.

  • You want nothing more than a partner to share your life with.

  • You are feeling like throwing your hands up in the air and giving up on finding the right person.

  • You have been hurt in the past and feelings of uncertainty and fear towards opening up to others again.

How would you feel if 

  • I told you that you can find love that ignites a fire within your heart.         

  • You can enjoy the excitement and adventure, as you explore life's journey hand in hand, facing challenges and celebrating milestones together.

  • You can be with your partner and have dreams, laughter, and unyielding support you always wanted.

  • You feel at home with your person.

In Love Life Essentials I am going to show you how.

Hi there, I’m Melissa

I am a certified transformational and mastery life coach who specializes in love. I empower women to intentionally date so they can stop wasting time and find a love that feels right.

It's not just my mission, it's my personal commitment to you. I want to create a safe and supportive space where you can freely explore your desires, values, and boundaries. Together, we'll dive deep into your journey of self-discovery and growth, so you can make empowered choices about your love life.

I'll be your guide, providing you with the knowledge, resources, and personalized support you need to navigate the complexities of love and relationships. My goal is to empower you with the tools and insights to create the love story you desire.

More about me

  • I have experienced feelings of being lost, frustrated, and disheartened in my journey to find love. I've been on dates that made me wish I were anywhere else, questioning why I put myself through this cycle.

    The awkwardness, dismay, and constant let downs became all too familiar. I found myself in relationships that didn't align with who I truly am, like wearing an outfit two sizes too small, leaving me suffocated and unable to breathe. At times, to not hurt the other person, I compromised my boundaries and, out of fear, ghosted potential partners to protect myself from hurt AGAIN.

    Eventually, I reached a breaking point in my love life. I was sick and tired of dating the wrong guy. I had just come out of a relationship with a narcissist that left me feeling lost and disconnected from my own heart. I realized that my choices were not in alignment with my true desires. It was then that I made a commitment to work on my inner self, to elevate my love life.

    I delved deep into personal growth and transformation, raising myself to a higher frequency. And then, it HAPPENED. I experienced a deep connection, a love that I have always wanted. I discovered my passion for helping others do the same.

    Now, I am here to guide you through the step-by-step process that has worked for me. I believe that every one of us deserves to experience the love we desire. It is within your reach to have a love that feels right. Let me show you how to date and attract that love into your life. Together, we can make your love story a reality.

  • Melissa is a certified transformational and mastery life coach specializing in love. With over 13 years of experience as an ICU RN, she made a transformative career shift to empower individuals on their journey towards finding and nurturing love.

    Through her coaching practice, Melissa guides clients to embrace an authentic mindset and discover the power of self-discovery. She creates a safe and supportive space for individuals to overcome obstacles, explore their desires, and build fulfilling relationships.

    Passionate about personal growth and empowering others, Melissa brings compassion, knowledge, and transformative tools to help clients attract and create the love they deserve.

    With unwavering commitment, she partners with clients on their path to experiencing true love.

    • I poured my heart and soul into being an ICU nurse for 13 incredible years, witnessing both the fragility and strength of life. That journey of my life left a mark on my heart, shaping my perspective on compassion and the profound impact of love.

    • One of my passions is a goal to explore all 50 states. So far, I have ventured into 37 states and counting.

    • Thrill-seeking is in my blood. I've leaped out of an airplane, feeling the rush of adrenaline. I've conquered roaring rapids while whitewater rafting.

    • Nature is my sanctuary, and hiking is my ultimate escape. I can't get enough of the awe-inspiring landscapes and the feeling of oneness with the natural world.

    • My heart longs to explore every corner of our world. Becoming a world traveler is not just a dream; it's a burning desire that fuels my spirit of adventure and discovery.

    • My husband's roots trace back to the country of Turkey. Our love story transcends borders, intertwining two souls from different corners of the world.

    • Love knows no bounds, which is why my husband and I celebrated our love with a second wedding in the land of Turkey. It was a magical experience, blending our cultures and creating memories to last a lifetime.

    • As I stand here today, I want you to know that my commitment to deepening my own experience of love is unwavering. And I extend that same devotion to you, ready to walk alongside you on your own extraordinary love journey.

Testimonials

“In the first 30 minutes of working with Melissa, I had a powerful breakthrough around feeling worthy of love. I felt safe to be vulnerable and explore my beliefs around love. It was exactly what I needed. 10/10 would recommend!” — Racheal K.

“I love working with Melissa. She is kind, supportive, and funny. She makes self accountability doable and pleasurable by helping me to think about concrete actions that I can take toward accomplishing my vision for my best self.” — Kimberly T.

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Love Life Essentials: 90 days to master the dating world and pave the path to find fulfilling love!

If you are…

  • Ready to invest in yourself, your love life, and your future, knowing that the rewards of finding true love are immeasurable.

  • Ready to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your desires in order to attract a compatible and loving partner.

  • Ready to break free from the cycle of dating disappointment and embrace a new chapter of love and fulfillment.

  • Ready to learn new strategies and techniques that will enhance your communication skills and deepen your connections with potential partners.

  • Ready to let go of any past hurts or resentments that may be holding you back from experiencing true love.

  • Ready to embrace vulnerability and step outside of your comfort zone to create the love life I truly desire

  • Ready to take actionable steps towards finding your person and creating a love story that fills your heart.

Then I invite you to join me on this transformational journey.

"Love Life Essentials" is a 90 day results-driven transformative coaching program designed exclusively for single women who are ready to stop wasting time and find a love that feels right.

  • Weekly 1:1 coaching sessions for personalized support and guidance

  • In-depth exploration of your love story and relationship goals

  • Customized action plans and exercises to accelerate your progress

  • Accountability and ongoing support throughout the 90-day journey

  • Two emergency messages to talk you off the ledge

  • Transformative deep dive session, unlocking profound insights to guide you towards finding the love of your life.

PLUS these templates that will help find the love you have always wanted.

  • Your own love menu.

  • Online profile checklist to show exactly who you are and what you want.

  • Specific conversation starter for genuine connections.

  • Red flag list to help identify red flags quicker.

 Program highlights:

Testimonials

“Melissa is awesome! She dives deeper into why you want what you want and teaches you along the way. She gives great insight and makes the conversation overall welcoming.” — Grace M.

“Melissa is a great coach and great listener. She made it safe and fun to open up and share more than I normally would, and it was easy to talk to her. She has a passion for her work and she loves people. It's hard not to share her contagious energy. I would love to work with Melissa again.”  — Mimi D.

Melissa is a gem. She has a great personality and vibe. You can really feel her passion, excitement, energy and willingness to help.” — A.H.

“Melissa was a great coach. She was very present, joyful and easy to talk to.” Hajni E.

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In just 90 days you will…

  • Gain clarity on your relationship goals and desires.

  • Uncover and reframe any limiting beliefs that may be holding you back.

  • Learn effective strategies to attract and cultivate a healthy, loving, and fulfilling relationship.

  • Develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your needs in a partner.

  • Enhance your self-confidence and self-worth to attract the love you deserve.

Receive personalized guidance, support, and accountability throughout your transformative journey.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • I have limited availability for my “Love Life Essentials” coaching program, allowing me to provide personalized attention and support. With only three new clients per month, I carefully select individuals ready for a remarkable journey of self-discovery in their love lives.

    The “Love Life Essentials” is for committed individuals who are willing to invest in their happiness. It goes beyond superficial advice, aiming to create lasting change rather than quick fixes. This program requires a genuine desire to embrace a new perspective on love, relationships, and self-worth.

    I cannot work with those who dwell in negativity, constantly complain about their love life, or doubt the possibility of finding happiness. My coaching approach thrives on positivity and empowering clients to overcome challenges. Consistency and accountability are crucial; individuals consistently missing sessions or making excuses cannot be accommodated.

    If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not schedule an initial conversation with me and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?

    By accepting only dedicated individuals ready to invest in themselves and embrace positive change, I ensure my clients receive unwavering support and guidance in transforming their love lives into something extraordinary.

  • If you've experienced setbacks and disappointments in the past when it comes to matters of the heart, it's highly likely that you lacked the proper support, a reliable system, or effective accountability.

    But here's the exciting part: "Love Life Essentia" provides you with precisely what you've been missing. This program offers support, a proven system, and a strong sense of accountability.

    The investment required for this transformative experience is purposeful. It serves to ensure that you prioritize your own growth and development like never before. By committing to this journey, you're making a powerful statement to yourself that you are ready to show up fully and make the necessary changes to create your ultimate love story.

  • Have you ever stopped to consider how much you've invested in your search for love? If you add up all the expenses over the years, including things like retail therapy, going out with the girls, buying wine. Starting new gym memberships, dieting programs, or even treatments like botox, it's quite remarkable. And if things continue unchanged, you might end up spending even more in the future, searching for a solution. Believe me, many of my clients have been through similar experiences.

    Now, take a moment to reflect and ask yourself, "What is finding a new relationship truly worth to me?" Think about the value of having a loving and fulfilling partnership in your life. It can bring joy, support, and a sense of fulfillment that no amount of money or temporary fixes can provide.

    The “Love Life Essentials” program offers more than just a quick fix. It provides you with valuable knowledge, skills, and personal transformation that will have a lasting impact. This investment goes beyond external changes or quick fixes. It focuses on creating meaningful and positive changes in your life, ultimately leading to genuine happiness and a fulfilling love life.

  • Most life coaches give you a checklist of what to do and what not to do. If this worked it would have worked already.

    But “Do this, not that” doesn’t work because everyone is different and should have a curated system to help them.

    So first and foremost my coaching is about transforming beliefs and mindsets so that my clients can be present with themselves and their lives in a whole new way. I follow that work with step-by step guidelines around healthy dating and do a deep dive inner love game.

    Something else that makes me different from other life coaches is that I ONLY work with single women who want to stop wasting their time. In other words, I’m not a Jill-of-all-trades life coach. I refer clients who want to lose a few pounds or get the business they want to other coaches.

    What that means for you is that I am very focused on anything and everything that works for the single woman that wants to find the love they always wanted.

    Because my focus is very narrow and I have personal experience overcoming these challenges, what you get with me is a deep level of expertise on what works to recover from unfulfilled dating. I’ve become an expert at this topic and that’s why my clients get great results that they are thrilled with - and we have a lot of fun along the way!

  • Absolutely. We’ll be sure to cover all of your questions, plus the Love Evaluation Call will give you firsthand experience of what it would feel to have a powerful coach and mentor in your corner.

  • Yes, about 1/2 of my clients want to continue the work - they love the on-going support and stretch. If that’s something you’d like, I’ll share how you can do that as we get closer to the completion of your first “Love Life Essentials" experience.

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